{"id":26782,"date":"2019-10-15T09:00:16","date_gmt":"2019-10-15T14:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/?p=26782"},"modified":"2019-10-17T10:38:02","modified_gmt":"2019-10-17T15:38:02","slug":"sinclair-voices-heard-during-national-coming-out-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/tartan-news\/2019\/10\/15\/sinclair-voices-heard-during-national-coming-out-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Sinclair Voices Heard During National Coming Out Day"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">As part of Sinclair\u2019s acknowledgment of National Coming Out Day, Larry Lindstrom, Multifaith Campus Ministry Chaplain and LGBTQ+ Support Liasion, and Kara Brown, Advisor to Brite Signal Alliance, the student organization for the LGBTQ+ community, hosted a panel of students sharing their experience coming out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Coming out as a member of the LGBTQ+ community can be a struggle, as people can face rejection in the form of physical or mental abuse from family, friends and strangers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Members of the panel described their personal experiences coming out and how the reactions of those close to them weren\u2019t always what they expected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI think my story really shows two sides of it,\u201d Nate Smith, a student and member of Brite Signal Alliance said. \u201cWhen I came out to my mom, I was nervous as hell\u2026 I told her, and her reaction was \u2018ok, cool.\u2019 She has always been supportive of me and had my back in that regard and didn\u2019t see me as any different of a person, which is probably the best reaction you could have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhen I told my father I was out at The Greene, and when I told him he decked me in the face in front of 500 people. He told me I was gonna burn in hell, all that typical stuff\u2026 Imagine what would\u2019ve happened if I told him when I was living with him or been visiting him alone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\tBrown stated that coming out is not just dealt with by the person coming out, but is a decision that has to be weighed and calculated for every person they know, be it a friend, family member or coworker, as everyone\u2019s reaction could be different and have their own set of consequences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Related Articles:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"New LGBTQ + Support on Campus (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"http:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/tartan-news\/2019\/03\/27\/new-lgbtq-support-on-campus\/\" target=\"_blank\">New LGBTQ + Support on Campus<\/a><\/li><li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/tartan-news\/2018\/06\/14\/dayton-shows-its-pride\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Dayton Shows its PRIDE (opens in a new tab)\">Dayton Shows its PRIDE<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\t\u201cOne thing with coming out that I\u2019ve come to understand is that it is a process for [parents] as much as it is for me, which sucks,\u201d Ethan Sacrenty, member of Brite Signal said. \u201cWhen I first came out it was, \u2018You\u2019re going to hell, and she was so upset\u2026\u2019 but now it\u2019s \u2018You and KC [their fiance] are coming over for Christmas right?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\t\u201cI wish it wasn\u2019t a process for everyone else to understand, but going along with them as they\u2019re going along with you is very important,\u201d Sacrenty said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\t\u201cComing out is not a one-time process,\u201d Sky Burke, President of Brite Signal Alliance said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> \u201cThe reactions when I came out as bi and when I came out as trans were totally different, \u201cJaden Cypher of Bright Signal Alliance said. \u201cI came out to my mom as trans\u2026 she has a nickname for me \u2018Princess Petunia Blossom,\u2019 which even if I wasn\u2019t trans I wouldn\u2019t want her to call me that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\tFollowing his coming out, Cypher and his mom got into a fierce argument that changed his perspective on her permanently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\t\u201cShe basically just stood there telling me \u2018you\u2019re wrong, you\u2019re lying to yourself this is not who you are,\u2019 and that hurt because she was the second person I came out to as trans and having that be the second person\u2019s view was\u2026 not great,\u201d Cypher said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Each member of the panel spoke about how they were able to create alternate families and support systems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p 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