{"id":18030,"date":"2018-01-23T15:04:51","date_gmt":"2018-01-23T20:04:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/?p=18030"},"modified":"2019-02-18T14:22:41","modified_gmt":"2019-02-18T19:22:41","slug":"my-voice-fail-early-fail-often-and-fail-forward","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/tartan-news\/2018\/01\/23\/my-voice-fail-early-fail-often-and-fail-forward\/","title":{"rendered":"My Voice: Fail Early, Fail Often and Fail Forward"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0I recently failed at a goal last semester that I had been working on for some time. This was passing a physical fitness test for the Sinclair Police Academy. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0To just say I failed would be the understatement of the year. This is my dream, and for whatever reason, I didn\u2019t get it done.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0As usual the self pity and resentment started to rise that afternoon as I laid in bed rethinking the day\u2019s events and how I could have possibly done better. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0In the middle of this exercise in self deprecation the phone rang. The caller ID said mom and I instantly answered it because I knew she was calling about the results of my exam.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"18044\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/public-domain-pictures-net\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1920,1271\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Public-Domain Pictures.net\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_-300x199.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_-1024x678.jpg\" class=\" wp-image-18044 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_.jpg\" alt=\"Public-Domain Pictures.net.jpg\" width=\"406\" height=\"268\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_-768x508.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Public-Domain-Pictures.net_-1024x678.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 406px) 100vw, 406px\" \/> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0I answered the phone and like all mothers she instantly knew something was wrong. I told her how I performed horribly at the exercises and that I don&#8217;t think I will ever be able to fulfill my dream of being a law enforcement officer. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0My mother took a moment and said \u201cYou failed&#8230; Good!\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0I was taken aback by this comment for a moment and then retorted with a \u201cWhat!?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"18038\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/pexels-photo-262218\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"867,1300\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"pexels-photo-262218\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218-200x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218-683x1024.jpg\" class=\" wp-image-18038 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218.jpg\" alt=\"pexels-photo-262218.jpg\" width=\"237\" height=\"355\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218.jpg 867w, https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.sinclairclarion.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/pexels-photo-262218-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 237px) 100vw, 237px\" \/>\u00a0 \u00a0My mom continued and said \u201cLife has never been truly easy for anyone, we all have our crosses and burdens to bear. But those who survive are the ones who get back up when knocked down. They\u2019re the ones who learn from their failure and grow from it. Every failure has a lesson and it is up to you to learn what that lesson is. So my son the best thing you can do is to fail early, fail often and fail forward. Take this disappointment and let it compel you to complete your tasks and goals.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0She ended her words of wisdom with an \u201cI love you\u201d and hung up the phone. This gave me some time to reflect and think about what she had just said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0I then later found out that the speech she had given me was stolen largely from a famous celebrity whose moniker began with Fresh and ended with Prince. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0But the words still hold true and I have taken the preparations and steps to meet my goal this semester and I encourage you to do the same. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0The world is a hard place and we can&#8217;t just lay down whenever something doesn&#8217;t go the way we want it to! We have to be strong, we have to be unstoppable and we have to learn from our shortcomings. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 \u00a0So in the words of my mom and Will Smith: fail early, fail often, and fail forward. Good luck to us all!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Justin A. 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